10 Questions to Ask Your Parents Before They're Gone
Time has a way of slipping past us. The older we get the faster it moves. One day, we realize we don’t know as much about our parents’ stories as we wish we did or even thought we did. What were their dreams growing up? What lessons shaped their character? What do they hope to pass on?
At Roots & Story, we believe that every life is worth remembering. Whether you’re planning a legacy video or simply want to dive into a deeper conversations, here are 10 questions to ask your parents before they’re gone.
Questions
1. What was your childhood like?
Ask about their family, home, school, and neighborhood. These details give life and insight to their early years that shaped who they are today.
2. Who had the biggest impact on your life?
This often reveals mentors, loved ones, or even difficult experiences that shaped them.
3. What’s that one memory that still makes you laugh?
Joyful stories are the heart of a legacy, they bring smiles for future generations.
4. What were some of your biggest challenges, and how did you overcome them?
Their resilience can become part of your family's strength and story.
5. How did you meet Mom or Dad?
Love stories are timeless treasures for both children and grandchildren.
6. What were some of your proudest moments?
This is a chance to honor their accomplishments, both big and small.
7. What are some things you wish you’d done differently?
Honest reflection offers wisdom that often goes unspoken.
8. What traditions meant the most to you growing up?
Family culture often lives in the details, the meals, holidays, or faith.
9. What advice would you give to your grandchildren?
This is where their values, hopes, and dreams can shine through.
10. What do you want to be remembered for?
This legacy question can bring everything full circle.
These questions are more than conversation starters, they’re the foundation of a legacy. Don’t wait for a perfect moment. Sometimes, all it takes is sitting down with a cup of coffee and asking, “Hey, I want to know more about the life you lived”.
If you’d like to preserve your parent’s story Roots & Story can help. We professionally capture life stories through in-person video interviews so their story is never lost.
